CHANGE THE WAY YOU LOOK AT THINGS
Trials can appear to be obstacles... if we choose to look at them that way. OR trials can be opportunities. I never planned to be 25 and single. As silly as it might sound, this reality at times has been a trial in my life. Lets be real, being single can be tough. The dating game isn't always a good time. I would love to be married and have kids. However, at least for right now, that does not seem to be God's plan for my life. Instead of throwing my own "being single is hard" pity party, I can instead look for the many blessings I do have. I can focus on becoming my very best self, so that when the time does come to be married, I will be better prepared. Being single might not be your "trial", however, whatever yours might be, the advice is still the same. "When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change." I could look at being single as a trial, or I could look at being single as an opportunity. An opportunity to learn, to grow, to focus on improving myself, and simply ENJOY this time of my life.